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I wish I could by me a spaceship and fly

Calvin — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 01:12:36 +0000

I’ve been working this graveshift and I ain’t made shit…I wish I could buy me a spaceship and fly past the sky.

Man somedays I wish I could just take off and fly away. Leave all problems and worries behind and don’t have a care in the world. At least in space the things that people worship here on earth don’t matter. Things like cars and clothes don’t matter because you don’t need them.

The world as we know will drastically change once people get their priorities straight. Worry more about needs and not so much about wants. I’m guilty of this too. At one point in my life I was so consumed with material things I had to have the newest car and the flyest clothes. None of that shit matters to me any more. As long as I don’t have a rust bucket and I can get to where I need to and I look neat and clean I’m happy with that.

Times sometimes get rough and you think that you are in the worst situation ever just remember that things can always be worse and if you stay positive things will take a change for the better. Well that’s my 3 cents..this is my blog and I blog about whatever the hell I want to!

School Spirit?

Calvin — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 01:34:50 +0000

We grow up being told that in order to get a good job and be successful in life we have to go to college and get a degree. Now that we have that degree we will be able to get a good job and we will be successful.

I believe that’s some bullshit some of the most successful people in the world either never went to college or were drop outs. I think the government brainwashes us to believe this so they can control as much as possible.

According to a report by the SBA small businesses account for 60-80% of the total net annual jobs produced in the United States. 60-80%? Wow, if this is true how come people aren’t being encouraged to start their own businesses? How come they don’t make funds for starting small businesses easily accessible? A student loan is the absolute easiest loan to obtain. How many people do you know with a bachelors or masters degree and are unemployed or are waiters at the Cheescake Factory?

While school is the obvious solution for some of us that’s not a avenue that most want to travel. The most successful people in the world are those that go down the road less traveled.

You only live once so live life to the fullest and carry with you no regrets but only lessons learned. Well that’s my 3 pennies and this is my blog and I blog about whatever the hell I want to!

How to know you really love someone

Calvin — Mon, 05 Jul 2010 19:16:27 +0000

Over the years I’ve had some relationships some good some bad. Some of them including my marriage I’m concluding that I didn’t really love those women. I feel that it was a really deep infactuation. I believe when u really love someone you’re willing to accept as they come and you’ll do anything with and for them. If you don’t have that kind of dedication to the person you’re with the you need to seriously re-evaluate that relationship because u are more than likely wasting both of your time….This is my blog and I can blog about whatever the hell I want to.

Who Needs New Years Resolutions?

Calvin — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 14:58:04 +0000

I’m on a flight to St. Louis and was thinking about the same damn thing that people across the world think about every year. You will hear people and read many blog posts talk about their New Years Resolution. Most of these people will talk about stopping bad habits like smoking, drinking, and a ton of other things. My resolution isn’t anything remotely close to any of the normal resolutions. My resolution is to have no New Years resolution but, to consistently make change for the better all year round. Not to make change on a predetermined date to only fail miserably at the resolution and to continue to do things as I did before. Every year people repeat the cycle of insanity…consistently doing the same thing in the same way and expect to get a different outcome. I will not continue to be insane another year so I’m declaring a national Fuck New Years resolution emergency. Get out of the box before you’re dead in a box with a lifetime full of resolutions and regrets. Well, that’s my two cents and I’m bringing back one of my old sign off tags…This is my blog and I can blog about what the hell I want to.

Detroit State of Mind

Calvin — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 23:32:45 +0000

I’m beginning to notice a state of mind here in Detroit. The state of mind is insane! According to Albert Einstein the definition of insanity is: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. This can apply to many different situations like relationships, business, and more. You have females that whine about not being able to find a good man and scream all day that ni99as ain’t shit. Every now and then I ask the question did it ever occur that you may be the problem.

Maybe it’s something that you’re doing that’s attracting these nothing ass ni99as. Every time you go out to you have to wear the shortest skirt that they sell at the Rainbow? Do you have to wear the top that lets your titties hang out and show the most cleavage? You go out dressed like you work on Woodward and expect guys to want something else other than sex or not to grab your ass when they see you in the club. When you go out showing all your goods in some guys eyes it’s an advertising saying that I’m ready to fuck tonight and even though you may not be a hoe most guys will think you are and treat you accordingly.

If you don’t respect yourself why would expect for a man to. Also, ladies quit sleeping with guys after the first date and know your worth. My granddaddy always told me that anything that is worth having is worth waiting for. If a ni99a can’t wait to have sex with you then you can’t wait to drop his ass like a bad habit. Flat out!!!

Male and female alike need to quit being so desperate for affection and quit trying to force relationships because you’re lonely. Make sure that the person has the same goals and aspirations you do. Make sure that they want the same things out of life you do. You have some people that every person they talk to they go telling everybody “He/She is the one”. How in the hell is this person the one when you don’t even know there damn middle name. Please get it together people.

People complain about it being no jobs in Detroit. There are plenty of jobs here you just have to go out and get them. If you don’t have the qualifications go and get them. You can’t expect more than a minimum wage job when all you have is minimum wage qualifications. These days just a high school diploma topped with no experience is not going to cut it. To be marketable you have to have some qualifications, and skills to put on your resume.

My take on the whole situation in Detroit is we have to change what we are going to do a different result. If we keep the same state of mind and keep doing the same things we are going to get the same result. Change is what is necessary to see a different result. Well, I’m through giving my two cents until next time.