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In life people often wonder why things don’t work for them. I’ve came to the conclusion that its lack of consistency. This is true in business, relationships, and most aspects of your life. If your not consistent then things are bound to change. For example if you have always been consistent in doing random things for your mate in your relationship and things just stop. There are going to be changes. In business if you consistently produce good work and then stop things are going to change. Plain and simple you have to stay consistent.

Over the years I’ve had some relationships some good some bad. Some of them including my marriage I’m concluding that I didn’t really love those women. I feel that it was a really deep infactuation. I believe when u really love someone you’re willing to accept as they come and you’ll do anything with and for them. If you don’t have that kind of dedication to the person you’re with the you need to seriously re-evaluate that relationship because u are more than likely wasting both of your time….This is my blog and I can blog about whatever the hell I want to.

Sometimes having sex can make a realtionship grow and blossom into a beautiful thing and sometimes it can kill a relationship. Some people say having sex too soon can hurt a relationship. But who determines when it’s too soon? Is it the girl or the guy? How long should you wait? How come women always think that a guy is not going to mess with them anymore if they have sex too soon in the womans eyes?

I believe that there shouldn’t be a time limit set on sex or even how fast a relationship moves for that matter. If two people care about each other and there’s a physical attraction why not do it? I mean sometimes waiting too long can make a guy or even a girl stray away from the relationship and do stupid ish! People need to learn to let life/love take it’s course and quit